;);)Shaping A Future Husband;);)

by Anju, posted in Life
  • I believe it sounds bit strange**shaping a future husband** right?

Let’s get in details

  • We teach our daughters to be good girls and good wifes but we hardly teach our sons to be good husbands.
  • My son is 6 years old and it’s been 2 years I am teaching him a little things about everyday life… (according to his age)
  • I decided to help him to be a good boy and a good husband in many ways.
  • I don’t tell him that you are helping me when you are working.. I make sure to tell him that its all of us job to work in the house and take care of our family!
  • I know what a good husband should be like. 😂😂😂😂

I try to teach him

  • How to talk politely
  • How to be funny
  • How to be a good support
  • How to make your love onces feel beeter around you
  • How to accept your mistakes/flaws
  • How to be faithful
  • How to be a good listener and understanding person
  • How to trust
  • How to treat women
  • How to Encourage your partner
  • How to complement
  • How to selfcontrol in difficult times
  • How to be assertive
  • How to celebrate special days
  • Recognize each others strenght
  • How to take care of your health ( food and workout)
  • ………………………….
  • Voilance is not a solution in marriage. . (Thank you so much @Elizabeth) from her….

Most of all

  • How to keep the house clean
  • How to do laundry
  • How to fold your own clothes
  • How to do dishes
  • How to put groceries in the fridge
  • Watering plants
  • How to cook (he loves to cook)
  • How to put away dirty laundry
  • How to make bed

May be I missed few point if yes please add your points.

103 thoughts on “;);)Shaping A Future Husband;);)”

  2. A few minutes ago I posted my work for the “Versatile Blog Award”. The task was to describe myself in 7 facts.
    Now I see, it was an absolute waste of time. I just could copy and paste your list and it would describe me perfectly… 😄

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    1. I wish u could hear me laughing ryt now!
      I hope it’s not too late copy and post now or share our blog.
      I just love your honesty ☺☺
      Don’t worry stay strong…just copy and paste😉😉

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      1. I am so happy to read your 2 posts about this and the kitchen one. Honestly small efforts can make so much difference for ourselves and soceity. Happy to read them….:)

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  7. I love this post. I agree with learning to cook the most. It is how my boyfriend won me over. If a man knows how to cook…. praise the lord!!! Nothing better than that!

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  10. Great post! My point exactly.
    I was just having a conversation with my PT the other day and I was saying that 50% of marriages end up in divorce because if the failure of the parents to teach their daughters and sons how to be a good wife/husband. Chivalry is dying and people blame it on feminism. It is a lame excuse! I just feel that most men have no clue how to treat a lady and a lot of women don’t have a clue how to be a lady.
    When my kids were growing up, I let them watch and read Pride and Prejudice and others of the same genre so they have an idea of how a gentleman treats a lady and vice versa. It’s all about respect, commitment, integrity, partnership.
    You are doing a great job!

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    1. Actually we put a lot of pressure on girls and never teach our sons how to behave….I believe girls can easily mold into any shape easily if they are treated respectfully ..if we teach our sons to respect their partners they can be very happy. .once again thank you so much for your time snd for your comment ☺

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  22. So wonderful that you are thinking like this. As the mother of 5 boys, I am trying my best to do these same things. I know one day they will be husbands and fathers and I want them to be their best. My boys help in daily and weekly household chores and are beginning to learn to cook some simple things too, like eggs. Good job, Mamma!!👍

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    1. Thank you. .. as married women we know how it makes a huge difference to have a loving,caring and understanding husband…. if we can ask for one why not shape one! (For someone lucky)😉😉

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