- I believe it sounds bit strange**shaping a future husband** right?
Let’s get in details
- We teach our daughters to be good girls and good wifes but we hardly teach our sons to be good husbands.
- My son is 6 years old and it’s been 2 years I am teaching him a little things about everyday life… (according to his age)
- I decided to help him to be a good boy and a good husband in many ways.
- I don’t tell him that you are helping me when you are working.. I make sure to tell him that its all of us job to work in the house and take care of our family!
- I know what a good husband should be like. 😂😂😂😂
I try to teach him
- How to talk politely
- How to be funny
- How to be a good support
- How to make your love onces feel beeter around you
- How to accept your mistakes/flaws
- How to be faithful
- How to be a good listener and understanding person
- How to trust
- How to treat women
- How to Encourage your partner
- How to complement
- How to selfcontrol in difficult times
- How to be assertive
- How to celebrate special days
- Recognize each others strenght
- How to take care of your health ( food and workout)
- ………………………….
- Voilance is not a solution in marriage. . (Thank you so much @Elizabeth) from her….
Most of all
- How to keep the house clean
- How to do laundry
- How to fold your own clothes
- How to do dishes
- How to put groceries in the fridge
- Watering plants
- How to cook (he loves to cook)
- How to put away dirty laundry
- How to make bed
May be I missed few point if yes please add your points.
That’s good education indeed
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Yeah .. if we learn o lot of things to be good ..they should be doing same to live a happy life.
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True that! 9
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Thanks
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A few minutes ago I posted my work for the “Versatile Blog Award”. The task was to describe myself in 7 facts.
Now I see, it was an absolute waste of time. I just could copy and paste your list and it would describe me perfectly… 😄
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I wish u could hear me laughing ryt now!
I hope it’s not too late copy and post now or share our blog.
I just love your honesty ☺☺
Don’t worry stay strong…just copy and paste😉😉
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Which post can I read? Plz
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Haha haha u r too funny!
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https://teekaysite.com/2017/01/15/versatile-blogger-award/
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I can’t read chines 😢😢 ( if I can’t understand any language it must be Chinese than for me)
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It’s German, but don’t worry. You are describing me that perfectly, so that’s not necessary to understand what I said in many many words… 😀
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Ahhhh ..I am too lazy to read or write that’s why I write in points…silly me😢😯
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in a nutshell… that’s easy to understand, no worries. I need more words…
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😂😂yup
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I can’t read your blog but I can feel the intention …. love all the pix in your blogs🌹🌹🌹🌹
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Thank you… I think my photographs are revealing a lot of me.
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Hmmmm. ..
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That’s too much lesson at 6 .. But u r doing great.. Do not rush but teach him gradually..
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I believe this the best time to get use the good habits
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Ofocurse all I’m saying is not to rush..
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Of course. . We do it little by little 😉😆
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After 10 it would be hard….
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Great and Inspiring
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Thank you so much ..anything do you want to add?? I will add in my post with ur name☺
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I am so happy to read your 2 posts about this and the kitchen one. Honestly small efforts can make so much difference for ourselves and soceity. Happy to read them….:)
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Thank you. . Yeah we need to learn a lot to let others happy and our selves ..
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Wow! Sounds amazing and challenging at the same time 🙂
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Thanks yes it very challenging but I hope it will work…did I miss any point?
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I think you have pretty much covered anything 🙂 I am still learning most of the things from your list 🙂 🙂
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Ahhhh u r such a sweet❤
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everything* I meant 🙂
❤ ❤
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I understood! !
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Don’t worry
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I love this post. I agree with learning to cook the most. It is how my boyfriend won me over. If a man knows how to cook…. praise the lord!!! Nothing better than that!
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Hahahaha very true… lucky you. . Thank you so much for your comment!
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Haha his wife is going to be a happy one! You’re doing a great job there, filling in all the right values and ensuring he adheres to them. Amazing😄😄
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Thank you. .I am trying my best..let’s see
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Let him know violence is never a solution in a marriage.🙂
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Oh yeah very important point ..thanks Elizabeth. .
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I mentioned you in my post..thank you
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Great post! My point exactly.
I was just having a conversation with my PT the other day and I was saying that 50% of marriages end up in divorce because if the failure of the parents to teach their daughters and sons how to be a good wife/husband. Chivalry is dying and people blame it on feminism. It is a lame excuse! I just feel that most men have no clue how to treat a lady and a lot of women don’t have a clue how to be a lady.
When my kids were growing up, I let them watch and read Pride and Prejudice and others of the same genre so they have an idea of how a gentleman treats a lady and vice versa. It’s all about respect, commitment, integrity, partnership.
You are doing a great job!
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Actually we put a lot of pressure on girls and never teach our sons how to behave….I believe girls can easily mold into any shape easily if they are treated respectfully ..if we teach our sons to respect their partners they can be very happy. .once again thank you so much for your time snd for your comment ☺
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I agree
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very brilliant idea .Congrats.
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Thank you sure I will do that right now 😉
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You have covered all the aspects. May God bless your little one ☺
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Ahhhh thank you. …thank you. . May God bless and guide all of us….
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JazakAllah Haris
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This is a very great topic i must say. With 3 sons I have a lot of work then
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Loved it!
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I am glad you like it……anything I missed?
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I don’t think so. I loved just like it was.
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Thank you 👧👧
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You’re welcome!
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☺
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Such an Handsome Boy… Nice thing to do…. Amazing act
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Ahhhh thank you dear!
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My Pleasure Dear Anju… Stay Blessed
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God guide us all
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Amen Dear. Amen
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Aw this is so sweet(: “how to be funny”😂😂 also you have a beautiful kitchen!
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Thank you dear
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Very positive aim!
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Thank you! !
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Love this 🙂 🙂 So important what you are teaching him ❤ ❤ You are a great Mum and your son looks so cute x x
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Ahhh thank you. .it is very challenging to teach him but we both r trying hard!
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Your most welcome 🙂 🙂 I’m sure you will both do fine x x
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I hope …☺once again thank you
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Oh, your son will grow up to be be an awesome man. Well done.
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I really hope for that! Thank you! !
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Good advice
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Thank you!
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Awww that’s so cute ! 💕
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Thank you ☺☺
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So wonderful that you are thinking like this. As the mother of 5 boys, I am trying my best to do these same things. I know one day they will be husbands and fathers and I want them to be their best. My boys help in daily and weekly household chores and are beginning to learn to cook some simple things too, like eggs. Good job, Mamma!!👍
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Thank you. .. as married women we know how it makes a huge difference to have a loving,caring and understanding husband…. if we can ask for one why not shape one! (For someone lucky)😉😉
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So, so true!
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😉😉
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You’re putting him on the right track. Good job
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Thank you! !
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Wow good job!! You rarely see this kinda thing and I think it’s great to see parents encouraging this and instilling good morals in their children. Great parenting, I am sure your son is and will continue to be a great guy
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Thank you so much .. we both try hard to stay on track 😉
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shaping your husband makes a nice reading . a very thoughtful thought. Congts.
regards
read my blogs equally interesting ,inspiring. and on various topics
brijkauldiary.com
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I am all ready married ☺☺
Shaping future husband for my daughter in law!
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oh no issue i just like the concept and thought.
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Thank you! !
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What a great list of ways to create a fine young man and future husband! Such a wonderful way you presented this here! Smiles Robin xo
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Ahhhhhh thank you. ..I am glad you like it.
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What a cute heart he is!! ❤️❤️ Great values Hun!!
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Thank you! !
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Love this ❤️. My son and I cook all the time. I want him to learn to take care of himself and others once he gets older.
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Amazing you are doing great job to teach him …. weldone
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Concept wise one of the best things I have read offlate.
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Great 👍 Anju so nice to educate them from a young age and fantastic presentation too.
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Thank you ….
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Welcome
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Wow! This is a really nice concept !!!
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Thank you for this post
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Nice post Anju.I loved it.
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Thank you!!
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